>Be
understanding when the elderly person seems to be stubborn about
something. Put yourself in their position; they've given up their
independence and must now rely on you for care. Any little thing that
they can hold on to help them feel more independent. When you understand
why they are being so stubborn, it's much easier to handle and you'll
have much less stress.
>Take
care of yourself as you care for the elderly. Your emotions can become
very stressful when caring for the elderly; you're giving up your own
freedom to care for someone who doesn't seem to appreciate it. You may
feel like you are being pulled in many directions. Don't take it
personally and don't hold on to negatives from the past, it will only
stress you more. Take time to care for yourself and do things for
yourself. Go to a movie or go to the beach. Take a break, it's good for
both of you. Laugh a lot.
>Listen to your elder; they have
so many great things to tell you. Listening is a form of respect and we
all want that. Take the time to have a chat with your elder person every
day; it will benefit both of you. When your elderly loved one is gone,
you will cherish this time.
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